15 Signs To Know It’s Time To End That Relationship

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There comes a point in a relationship, where there has to be a breakup. Sometimes, we tend to overlook all the other things about our partner that pisses us off so much but sometimes one really needs to know when to move on.

I hate breaking up with girls. I find it very hard to tell a girl that, I don’t want to be in a relationship anymore, so sometimes, what I do is to start acting ‘funny’ so the relationship sort of fades away or die naturally without having to tell the girl, I don’t want to date her anymore or that I have stopped loving her.

So When is it time to break up?

Basically, I hid from reality. There’s a point where you find yourself doing this. Maybe you’ve been together so long you’re scared to break up and be alone. Or you don’t think you’ll find someone as attractive as this person, which is insane by the way.

But the point is, we all have our reasons for sticking in a relationship that isn’t doing anything for us. However, it’s time to grow and develop as a person. So, check yourself back into reality and see when is it time to break up with your partner. The only person who knows is you.

 

#1 You’ve been thinking about breaking up. If it even crosses your mind, that’s a huge sign that something is really wrong. If everything goes well, it never crosses your mind. No one happy wants to end a relationship that makes them feel good. So, why are you thinking about breaking up? Possibly because of some of the reasons below?

#2 You’re miserable. You’re simply not happy. You’re always down in the dumps, you’re moody, snappy—even your friends notice your behavior. Why are you not happy? But really, why? It’s time to sit down and really reflect on your emotions.

#3 They don’t meet you halfway. You do it all. The arranging of date night, the cooking, the cleaning, initiating sex—you’re a one-person show. You could probably do this even better if you were single, you’d get even more done. If they put in minimal effort, what are you doing? You’re not a horse.

#4 You cannot resolve your issues. You try to resolve the issues between you but nothing seems to work. You did counseling, you sat down and talked about it, made a plan, yet, you still find yourself arguing over the same things. Well, if someone wanted to put in the effort to solve a problem, they would do it. They may be doing all the steps with you, but they don’t actually care.

#5 You don’t trust them anymore. You’d rather trust the guy who does B&Es for a living than your partner. You don’t believe a word they say. You constantly check up on them and always think about how they could screw you over. This sounds more like an enemy than someone you want to build your life with. If you’re doing the whole “keep your friends close, your enemies closer” this is the wrong context.

#6 Your needs are not being met. It’s pretty simple. What you need out of a relationship is not happening. For example, you need affection, but your partner isn’t hugging, kissing, or sleeping with you. Then you need to ask yourself why you’re in this relationship if you’re not getting what you need out of it. If your needs aren’t being met, it’s time to go.

#7 Your life paths are in the opposite direction. Of course, you have different goals in life, but if your life goes in a complete opposite direction, that’s a problem. You are supposed to grow together and support each other’s goals, while keeping your relationship just as high of an importance.

It’s a balancing act. However, if your partner wants to go to China to teach English and you want to open a Doggy Daycare in a small town, there are going to be some problem.

#8 You two do not agree on the fundamentals in life. In order for a relationship to work out, you should have an understanding of the core aspects of life. Marriage, children, values—these are all things that you should have a pretty solid understanding and agreement on. Now, of course, things can always change, but usually, they don’t veer off that far.

#9 You don’t feel like you can be yourself. In the beginning, you felt completely natural and free. As time passed, you no longer feel that you can relax and be you. The whole point of a relationship is to be with someone who lets you be yourself without any judgment. If you walk on eggshells around your partner, ask yourself why.

#10 You spend less time together. Usually, when couples are in love, they miss being with their partners. Makes sense, you want to be around the person you love. But if you spend more time away from them than with them, why are you together? I mean, if it’s because of the sex, you can find that anywhere else. The connection you two have should make you want to be around each other.

#11 Everything about them pisses you off. But like, literally everything. The way they chew their food, how they hang laundry, when they crack open a beer—every movement makes you clench your teeth with anger. It shouldn’t be like this. Take a deep look inside as to why they make you so angry.

#12 There’s no sex. Or very little sex. If you pretend you have your period or a headache more times than you have sex, that’s a problem. Sex is extremely important in a relationship. It’s basically what separates this relationship from a friendship.

#13 You’re happier when you’re away from your partner. When you’re with your friends and family, it’s like you’re another person. You’re laughing, making jokes. You’re happy. But when you’re with your partner, you lose your smile and your laughter fades. Your partner is supposed to make you happy. The connection and the fact that you’re with this person should be reason enough to put a smile on your face.

#14 You or your partner have wandering eyes. You notice when your partner has wandering eyes whether you’re a man or woman. If they’re looking around like it’s a Black Friday sale, well, that’s a pretty good sign. If your eyes are also wandering or if you actually like someone else, then you need to look at why you’re in your current relationship. Are the feelings still there?

#15 You no longer want to make sacrifices for them. Relationships are made of sacrifices. Maybe your partner has a new job in another city, so you move there with them. That’s a sacrifice you made in order to be together.

But if you no longer want to make decisions in order for your relationship to continue, then why are you in it? If anything, you gave up on the relationship and you’re just coasting by.

 

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