In the west, women don’t perceive men as ATM cards; they consider it their job to take care of themselves.
In Africa, once a male begins dating a lady, she becomes an orphan and dumps all her debts on the innocent guy whose only fault was to say “I love you.”
My belief is that a partnership is for the good of both parties, thus women should pay their own costs and in certain circumstances their men’s, and vice versa.
It’s not required, but she may be seen as a burden otherwise. Men aren’t banks. A Nigerian woman’s shocking tweet has sparked a heated discussion.
According to @Jojonitq, males should feel humiliated and worthless if their wives pay their expenses.
A man shouldn’t feel low.
there were times I took my male friends out and the bill was on me and there was also a time we had to split bill. We are all grown. Economy is also had. The burden shouldn’t be on one person.
— Oma Ruth (@Girl_Boss15) December 16, 2022
I remember this girl I ask to come around let’s see talk & know each other better. Picked her up & next thing she said let’s goto a supermarket close by. I obliged. Anyways when it was time 2 checkout, I told her I’ll be waiting in the car. That was d last day she ever spoke 2 me
— Oboks Jnr 🇳🇬🇵🇱 (@Oboksjnr) December 16, 2022
Before saying anything on this… How many times has your mother paid for her stuffs herself while your father is around? How to balance this mathematics
— Boy-Conssor ♤♧ (@ConssorX) December 16, 2022