A Nigerian lady has laid her predicament at the doorstep of popular relationship coach, Joro Olomofin.
The anonymous woman opined that her boyfriend is really unserious about their relationship and worst of all he’s showing no intention of marrying her.
Furthermore, the lady’s worry is embedded in the fact that all the men who proposed to her while in this present relationship have gone ahead to marry whilst her boo is just toying with her feelings.
Her full post reads (unedited);
“Anonymous! Good morning Joro and Joro-nation” I meet this guy 2019, them after our first time out something happened and he said he doesn’t want a relationship, then we became close friends.
I do tell him almost Everything that is going on in my life, he advise me and all I fall in love deeply with him. I tried to make things work for us again, all this while we where friends, he always may sure I wasn’t dating any guy, he says things to make me see reason not to date the guys asking me out, which I took his advise, because I love him so much. fast forward to 2021, when I noticed all those guys after me are all getting married and I’m booless.
I tried to distance my self from he to see if I can like anyone else, which he noticed and the them tried working his way back and said we should start all over again, I accepted. We had issue for like a week after we resolve it he told me he travelled out of the country, which I believed, after some weeks he told me he has given his out for service apartment. mind u the last time we spoke on phone was Feb, the rest just on chat, when I complained he said his phones has problem, this guy uses more than 3 phones.
My problem now is I really want to be out of this relationship, I’m not enjoying it, not that he gives me or anything but I love the guy s much, I can’t withstand being with another man, I have tried to talk to him, all he keep saying is I’m trying to make money so once I enter Nigeria we marry.
I’m confuse, I feel I’m being manipulated always telling me what I want to hear cos he knows I love him. I really want to let him go but my heart is not willing. I don’t know if I’m under something.
Please I need advise if there’s anyway I can forgot about him without huting my self more than I have already done, I have loose many good guys that care much about me all because of him, he act as if nothing is wrong with his way he behaved toward me, that I keep on bringing the issue of we not speaking on phone when he already told me his phones are bad.”