A Nigerian Twitter freak has admonished men to do well to take responsibility for babies even when DNA proves that the babies aren’t theirs.
This may well not go down well with many men out there as they cannot simply stand taking care of a baby that isn’t theirs.
There’ve been stories where DNA has proven some men take care of children that aren’t theirs and most of the times, such relationships hit a snag as the man would normally send them out to go search for the real fathers of the children.
Vivian maintains that women go through a lot in marriages and, thus, deserve better.
She added that when a man impregnates another woman, the wife would often be told to forgive and endure, adding that all genders must be treated equally.
“Men if DNA confirms the baby is not yours, it doesn’t change the fact that You must take responsibility of the baby… Women go through a lot in Marriages and women deserve better,” she tweeted.
“When a married man impregnates a woman, his wife will be told to forgive and endure. Every gender should be treated fairly,” she added.
When a married man impregnate a woman, his wife will be told to forgive and endure . Every gender should be treated fairly.
— QUEEN VIVIAN (@VivianRora) January 2, 2021
Some people, mostly men, shared their thoughts on Vivian’s concerns.
I ain't taking care of no baby that ain't mine, idc what the situation is, how can something be my responsibility that isn't mine. If women picked better men to begin with, we wouldn't be here
— Audioxe (@Audioxe_) January 2, 2021
Are you high on lizard ??If I impregnate another woman, is the kid not mine? How can you give me what is not mine.if I want to adopt, it’s a decision but deceiving me to father the kids that are not mine is https://t.co/lzNc4mlt1x you even knw wat you saying
— akintunde (@tunapa6582) January 2, 2021
Should a married man decide to marry a second wife, heaven will not fall. If your husband is cheating on you sef na because he still respects you because if he decides to bring the side chick home nothing will happen, but na taboo if a woman tries such.
— Micheal (@MikesJimmy) January 2, 2021
There are also cases of where a woman cheated on her husband and the husband was asked to forgive her and he did. That does not justify asking a man to take care of illegitimate children. It is a different thing if the man involved chooses to take responsibility out of volition.
— Olusegun Ronald Olaiya (@olusegunolaiya) January 2, 2021
I have two girls. The DNA isn't yours but please send support. I mean, it goes both ways right?
If the baby is not yours, you choose to help. There is no "must"
But this sounds like an episode of Maury. ?
I'm sure there is more to this outside this tweet.
— Shannon Bray (@ShannonBrayNC) January 2, 2021
How will someone not cheat to get pregnant outside marriage? Maybe she getting raped what else?
— MacnottheBook (@macnotthe) January 2, 2021