It is quite a common practice for some ladies to, all of a sudden, need something urgently from a guy; it has been something that men have been dealing with for a while now.
It isn’t the demand that is bad in itself as some of them might really be in dire need, but to ask for favours within just days of a guy asking you out is what a Ghanaian lady believes is foolish and stupid.
According to her, it is just not wise and makes a girl look foolish and stupid and the fact that she is a lady too does not mean he has to hide this fact from others; at the end of the day, it will help give girls a good name if this is stopped.
The lady, known on Twitter as Daddy’s Girls wrote;
“I’m a lady and I got to say this. Texting a guy that you “need a favor” after just days of him asking you out is foolish and makes you look stupid.”
This particular thing has made some ladies lose their relationships because asking for favours within just days of a guy asking you out gives him the clue that you are just in for the money and not interested in any long-lasting relationship with them and this makes them keep their distance from you before you drain their pockets.
I’m a lady and i got to say this. Texting a guy that you “need a favor” after just days of him asking you out is foolish and makes you look stupid ?
— Saada ?? ? (@daddys_girlT) February 9, 2021
The post by Daddy’s girl received several reactions.
See some of them below and share yours with us;
No, it's not. The lady might actually be hungry oo. Girls are hungry sister ??
— Einsteinnnn (@ricchking1) February 9, 2021
I always say this. It’s absolutely rubbish and they’re the ones giving us ladies bad names
— FAITH B. China Made Wife Material ???? (@faithfulgirlie) February 9, 2021
I think you should understand their situation before you insult them ??♂️
We know 3y3 gyimii but we have no option oo hmm ?
— Keka Wadwene (@shaba_charles) February 9, 2021
You'll think you've found a soulmate until she asks for momo before you get the chance to take her out on a date.
— Hon. Bruce (@itzeddie_bruce) February 9, 2021
Hmm this matter errh, some of them become orphans as soon as they accept our proposals not forgetting their "signing off fees"
— Asare Baffour (@234AsareBaffour) February 9, 2021
I don't share same tot as a man.
A need for favour can rise at anytime. So cos we just met doesn't mean you're foolish to ask for favour.
But don't ask for favour as your right.
— uNComMoN TwEEt (@TosinFayanju) February 9, 2021