A young man from Nigeria has taken to social media to share his experience as far as marriage is concerned.
Recalling the experience in a Twitter thread, he disclosed how he ended up ditching the lady he was about to marry back in 2012.
The man identified as Stanley on Twitter revealed that all was set for him to marry his girlfriend who worked at the bank but aborted his plans after meeting her family for the first time.
In his brief narration, he intimated that most ladies who are not married are single because of the way they were brought up.
According to Stanley Ezinna, he cancelled his wedding to his ex due to treatment given to the girl’s father.
He further disclosed that his ex’s mother was more interested in his husband’s bank account and how he will assist the family with their building project.
He tweeted; “Girls grow up to treat their husbands the same way their mothers treated their fathers. That’s was why I didn’t marry my ex in 2012. Smart girl. Works with one of the leading banks in Nigeria. Slim-thick, chocolate, tall and strong muscular legs, Just how I like it.”
“We were destined for the alter until I decided to see her parents. We drove to her parents house in the villa. Coming into the compound I noticed a semi-paralyzed man at the corner of the house with sadness all over him. No one paid attention to him and his clothes were dirty.”
“I felt he was a madman or something but was distracted by my girl’s mum and siblings circling around me with salutations. We got into the house and as a solid Igbo guy, I brought one carton of omega schnapps for the father like tradition dictates.”
“On asking for the father to present the drink, I was told dismissively that he was the man outside and the mum wanted to accept the drink on his behalf. I was shocked! What?? I asked my babe and she said it was a long story. I ignored her and went to the man.”
“Introduced myself and gave him my present. When the man told me his story, I wept. Brethren, pray that you marry a good wife. To cut long story short, I confronted the woman and she was more interested in my bank account and how I will assist with their building project.”
“Suddenly some of my babe’s aggressive behaviors begins to make sense. Then we grew apart cos I refused to do whatever the mother says. Ladies, don’t let your toxic mum lead you astray. So many ladies are unmarried because of their upbringing. My two cents!”
Girls grow up to treat their husbands the same way their mothers treated their fathers.
That’s was why I didn’t marry my ex in 2012.
Smart girl. Works with one of the leading banks in Nigeria.
Slim-thick, chocolate, tall and strong muscular legs?
Just how I like it#Thread
— Stanley Ezinna (@Stazingar) May 3, 2020