The veteran Nigerian actor and Lawyer, Kanayo O Kanayo is of the opinion that it is not prudent for an individual to discuss their problems with people who are not capable of helping to solve them.
According to him, it is unwise to seek counsel from people who are unproductive as such people do not stand in any position to guide you to success.
Those who have not chocked any notable success of their own in any venture, are so quick in offering advice to people on how to succeed and this most likely would lead to failure as they themselves have not succeeded, Kanayo O Kanayo intimated.
The actor stated further that, not everyone you see out there has the right to speak into your life, adding that even the many people out there parading themselves as Men of God do not have the right to speak into your life, and so you have to be careful where you seek for people to speak into your life, lest they ruin everything for you.
“Never receive counsel from unproductive people. Never discuss your problem with someone incapable of contributing to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always quick to tell you how. Not everyone has a right to speak into your life, not even many who address themselves as men/ women of God,” Kanayo O Kanayo wrote on IG.
The message being put out here by the veteran Nollywood actor is quite clear, and that is; if you want to be the best at something, it is prudent enough to mingle with and learn from people who have done so well at the venture you’re seeking to embark on.
And when you do have a problem for which you need solutions, you need to, as a matter of priority, see people who have possible solutions to your problem and not waste time on people who’d only just listen to your predicament and the next thing they will think about is how to make sure other people are in the know of what’s eating you up rather than trying to help you get over the trouble.
See the IG post by Kanayo O Knayo;