Are you a man who is contemplating on whether that lady is the right choice you have made based on the clues, or are you unsure of what to watch out for in a woman you are trying to go out with?
These tips will surely open your eyes to reality and help you appreciate yourself better, your position in this lady’s life and why you should just back off.
Ladies are tough to understand, and I mean women are so complicated. In that complication, they give every potential suitor some signs which clearly speak volume about their interest in you or not.
Now, you don’t have to waste your time chasing a lady when you know the signs are clearly written on the wall. Watch out for these signs and if she does these things, leave her.
1, She Hesitates In Getting Back To You.
We are all busy and there are chances that she may not respond to you as and when you reach out to her. But there is a threshold…if you have to wait for 24 hours before receiving a reply from that lady, she is not interested.
If a lady is genuinely interested in you, she will certainly check if she has missed a call or text from you and reply as and when she is less busy, But if you have to wait for an eternity before getting a reply from her, my guy…run for your life.
2, If She Cancels Plans Repeatedly.
If this lady always cancels plans at the eleventh hour when you’ve all decided to go on date or go hang out, she is clearly not interested. Well, it may be a one-off thing where she was busy or not ready to go out.
That is understandable, but my guy, if she always tells you something has come up and she is always not available for a date chances are she is not interested. If she is really interested in you, she will be eager to see you ask her out…but if the cancellation becomes repeated, my guy…run for your life.
3, She Calls You “Just A Friend”.
Lol! Oh my guy, and you are still waiting for a miracle from the hills of Zion?
If this lady you are trying to go out with always introduce you to others as “a friend,” then you are actually a friend and that’s where it ends. Run, run, run.
4, If She Tells You “I Am Not Ready”
If this lady always tells you she is not ready for a relationship, just understand it.
Most guys think when a lady says “I am not ready”, it suggests she is trying to play hard to get. My guy, she means it and that is why you need to go find someone who is ready. Don’t waste your time.
5, You Are Always The One To Initiate Contact.
My guy, are you always the one sending “hi, how are you doing, I just wanna check up on you,” then you are just wasting your time. No lady, if she is interested in you, will not always wait to have you call or text her first.
Yes, some girls will not reach out to you because they do not want to be seen as desperate. Some will deliberately not call just to ascertain your seriousness. But, there is a but…if this trend continues for a while chances are she is not really interested in you. Run now and stop wasting your time.
6, If You Escalate, She Goes Vague.
For instance, when you tell her, she is beautiful, and she rubbishes you. You tell her you wanna take the relationship to the next level and she seems not interested.
Well, she has no deep feelings for you. Watch how she reacts when you compliment her and you will understand. Your words are clearly not what she wants to hear. Stop wasting your time and run for your life.
7, She Blue Ticks You
Hmm! This matter. If she just blue ticks and does not bother to come back to respond, it’s clear you are not an important person to her.
Truthfully, she is not going to change and that is a big sign that she is not interested in you. Actually, she is responding to other chats as fast as she can and you can’t afford to be secondary in someone’s life like that.
8, Read Her Body Language.
Ladies communicate most of what they want to say through their body language. The nonverbal cues are very loud and profound which you should be conscious of.
Does she yawn when you are talking to her? Is she always on her phone when you are talking to her? Does she avoid to walk with you together in public? Does she keep a distance whenever she comes around you?
My guy, run as fast as your legs could carry you. She is not interested and sees you just not as important as you see yourself. Stop wasting your time now.
These tips were shared by Ghanaian broadcaster and YouTuber Jessica Opare-Saforo on her channel. Check Out Video Below