Blessing Okoro, the self-styled Nigerian relationship expert and YouTuber has admonished women to stop providing domestic service for men.
In her words, developing oneself is essentially beneficial than cooking, cleaning and washing for a man.
She added further that self-development matters most in this contemporary era than doing all the necessary things that are not really valid to men just to please them which in some cases ends in anticlimax.
In her words;
“Dear women, cooking and house chores does not make you a wife, go and develop yourselves, house chores, cooking for him, washing for him, doing all those busybodies does not make you a wife, you need to develop yourselves.”
“Marriage is not slavery, marriage is for companionship and when you are companioned with somebody, you need to learn how to communicate.
It is you women that has made a lot of men turn you to slaves, because many of you women are sacred of self-development.”
“A lot of men have dumped you today and you are wondering why in as much as you have been cleaning and washing for them, it’s because they have outgrown you, a man can now afford to pay for those things that you do for him.”
“What would you hold on to if a man decides to let you go? But if you develop yourself, you empower yourself and you become independent.”
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