Most ladies in Ghana want to marry men who are older than them and as a result, they marry men who are five to ten years older.
However, only a few have the courage to marry younger men.
The likes of Nana Ama Mcbrown is married to a man younger than her and she is happy in her marriage. Then there is Nollywood actress Regina Daniels who is married to a man who is at least forty years older than her.
In light of this, Ghanaian Jazz musician Stephanie Benson has advised women not to marry who are twenty years older than them as it can end in tears.
According to Stephanie Benson in a post on her Instagram page, most old men don’t marry for love. They marry for control, power, decoration among other fantasies.
Stephanie who was talking about a woman in a similar situation advised young people to marry men who are not too old because such relationships results in heartaches, boredom, sexual starvation amongst others.
Watch more from her video below;
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There are some benefits to marrying the Older Man, but there are some Older Men who marry for the wrong reasons. Control, Power, Decoration, Mid Life Crisis etc. For younger Women it’s Mainly Security. Marrying anyone more than 20years older, has a 95% chance of divorce. To marry for anyone of those reasons and NOT LOVE will result to heartache, boredom, unfilfulment etc. Irrespective of how wealthy he/she may be. Mrs L just proved it. ❤️