A Nigerian realtor, Esv. Adesewa has advised men to marry when all their efforts to get a lot of money gets frustrated and the money is not coming.
According to her, some women open doors to success and so when you’re are struggling to get money and it is not coming forth, you just have to stop and pursue marriage instead.
The question that will be begging for answers is when a man decides to do that and the doors don’t get opened, what’s going to happen to the man?
He is probably going to live a frustrated life all his life as he will be struggling even harder just to provide for his family; or he will have his heart broken because some of these girls will not look back when you struggle to provide for them.
Some women are indeed door openers and when you marry them, doors open for you but how do you know this girl is a door opener or one who will come and shut the faint hopes that you have to succeed?
“Dear single guys, when you pursue money and it’s not forth coming, stop and pursue marriage. Some women are open doors to your success,” Adesewa tweeted.
Would you take this advice and marry when you’re struggling to make money?
A lot of women today will not even give in to a man who they see struggling because they don’t want to come in and be struggling with you unless they are swept away by some kind of love they feel for you.
There are a few out there who’d rather struggle with you to make things better and meeting such group of women is a daunting task these days.
Dear single guys, when you pursue money and it's not forth coming, stop and pursue marriage. Some women are open doors to your success.
— Esv. Adesewa (@SewaHerself) December 26, 2020
Blow are some comments from people reacting to Adesewa’s post;
Tell them ooo……most especially Igbo guys….they will be saying until they make it ….. before they can marry.. if they are not meant to make it until they are 70yrs nko
— Matilda Abidemi (@matilda_abidemi) December 26, 2020
these are lies told by our parents. imagine someone who does not have a paying job, the family came together to give him a wife instead of a Job. What will he use in taking care of the family?? Marriage does not translate to wealth.
— cassi (@CassiTobi) December 26, 2020
Okay, let's be realistic here. If someone who's broke and doesn't have a means of livelihood at the time being comes to seek for your hand in marriage, would you opt in to marry him?. pic.twitter.com/jC3ayeCmml
— Vino Tinto (@VincentEinstein) December 26, 2020
U will be surprised because that is one sure way to obtain favour from God
— Aja®_ perfect (@Aja_perfect) December 26, 2020
This life is a mystery that can't be resolve by anyone. I have heard the story of a man that was foretold by 3 different people that until he goes to the prison and comes back that, that's when he will make it in life and becomes rich. It eventually comes to reality.
— Badass Lanre (@maclerry) December 26, 2020
Lmao. Person never fit take care himself, you say make he go marry. What if na still same thing. Hunger wey go beat person ehn 😂😂
— Jay (@Jaybaba_) December 26, 2020
It be like say na marriage I go pursue in 2021 since the money no gree come.
Abeg who is ready to marry me, make we kuku pursue this money together, after all teo heads are better than one.
— J u s t i n K a y c e e🇳🇬🇦🇪 (@JustinKayceee) December 26, 2020