The other time I saw you put out an email asking people to send their stories or dilemmas to be published on the blog. I know lots of people follow your blog so I want the opinions of others on what to do with this situation of mine. I would be reading anonymously to see what people say.
I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and he’s never shown any signs of cheating. I love him soo much that, I feel he is the ideal man for me. He’s hardworking and earns a decent salary that would be able to secure our future. I am also working just that he earns more than me but I don’t bother him with financial problems as I believe a woman shouldn’t become a burden on his boyfriend.
Recently, my boyfriend sent me a text message telling me he’s wrong me and that he wants me to forgive him. I was worried as I didn’t know what he was talking about. So the next day, I went to his house early in the morning to find out what it is that he’s done.
Hmmmm, my boyfriend told me that, he had impregnated some girl and he slept with the girl just once and that he was drunk that day.
I couldn’t believe my ears and started crying that whole morning, what hurt me more was that he said the girl’s family was now pressuring him to marry the girl since in their family, they don’t entertain that ‘born one’ attitude.
In pain and anger, I run out of his house and got a taxi home. I decided to block him on Social media and on calls and sms since I didn’t want to hear from him. I knew he would come to my house, so I left there and moved in with an auntie, who he doesn’t know.
I have spent 2 weeks at my aunt’s place and I just discovered that I am also pregnant and he’s the only one I f*ck so it’s his baby.
I don’t know if I should tell him or abort it. Please, what should I do?
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